Futuristic Words

The world of dating has changed dramatically since Love Systems started. With greater proliferation of cell phones and facebook and an overall trending away from voice-to-ear phone conversations on the part of younger, more desirable women, the rules guys mistakenly picked up from Swingers don’t apply anymore, to say the least. What’s in the Love Systems Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game? Here are some samples:

• Get a woman’s phone number almost EVERY TIME using the "magic words" thatmake flaking nearly impossible even if she’s drinking. (pg. 14-15)
• Avoid the one fatal error that 60% of guys make after getting her phone number that kills their chances right then and there. (pg. 12-13)
• Know whether to use phone or text (pg. 29-31) and how long to wait to get in touch (pg. 31-5) for every situation.
• Use "callback humor" to make sure your first phone call has her dying to see you again… but only if you set it up properly when you first met her. (pg. 21-24)
• Text her while you’re still talking to her so that your conversation continues ‘naturally’ even after you leave — and leads to a same night encounter or a date. Choose from among dozens of scripted messages to send. (pg. 15-18)

Every so often a product comes out that changes the game, something anyone in his right mind would deem a must-buy. When there was no other game in town, Ross Jeffries’s Speed Seduction got people on the right track. David DeAngelo cut a wide swathe into people’s consciousness and became a phenomenon when he self-published Double Your Dating. A few years later, with the community’s momentum online established, Neill Strauss wrote The Game showed the world what was happening on the same Internet they were using to send e-mails to their grandmothers and surf lonely porn in their lonely rooms by their lonely selves. With Strauss paying the Love Systems rent in many ways, Savoy threw down the ultimate gauntlet and wrote the manual, the first train to Gun Hill: Magic Bullets.

That is how significant The Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game is. This book is ground-breaking, and if you’re reading this, and you aren’t already buying this jaw-droppingly good book by Braddock and Mr. M, you’re not serious about improving your game. If you want to get better with girls in the modern world, you need—NEED—to purchase a copy. Yesterday.

But don’t take my word for it. Hear it from customers who have read the book. Amazing work, Braddock and Mr. M. I salute the both of you.

This joke is an old saw, but be patient with me.

Two guys are hiking in the forest when a bear appears out of nowhere. The bear chases the hikers, who hurry up a tree. The bear doesn’t miss a beat and starts climbing the tree after them. One of the men goes into his knapsack and starts putting on his running shoes as fast as he can. His companion says to him, “What are you doing?”

“When the bear gets here, we need to jump out of the tree and make a break for it,” said the first man says.

“Are you nuts?” the second guy asks. “You can’t outrun a bear!”

“I don’t have to outrun the bear,” the first man says. “I just have to outrun you!”

We’ll save the discussion of loyalty for another time. Clearly our sneaker-clad fellow was no altruist. Regardless, I want you to remember him when you consider your own development using Love Systems. A lot of guys have some strange and misguided notions about how seduction skills will apply to their own lives. They read The Game or hear some instructor talking about his most legendary experience meeting a girl, and that is the standard to which they hold themselves. While I’m a proponent of goal-setting, this sort of perception is folly. You don’t have to be a super-pimp to walk out of a bar with a beautiful woman. You don’t even have to be a pimp. 

Most of the guys out there are pretty lame. They use the same boring conversation bits as everyone else, they don’t deal with logistics properly, and they aren’t comfortable with physical contact, which translates roughly to being insecure about their sexuality. They don’t know how to tell stories, they’re afraid to tease the girls, and they act like they’re afraid to walk away (usually because they are). This is the world of cold approaches. Of course, most men don’t have the balls to approach girls in the wild, and their problems are different. Their pacing is slow, they take girls on boring dates, they plod along and hope the girl will take a shine to them, or they finally gather the strength to approach after a keg of liquid courage.

That is your competition.

Stop focusing on being perfect. Don’t try to be a PUA or an mPUA. Essentially, if you’re striving for an acronym, you are distancing yourself from your own goal. Take baby steps. Approach x girls per night. Tease each girl y times. Use a routine you like z times. Better yet, sexually escalate z times. Try to isolate a target in every set. These are small goals, they are measurable, and they are not dependent on feedback from the girl. If you work on the small things, if you deal with the basics, you can gradually improve. If you can be gradually more attractive and are the guy actually approaching girls, and you’re having a great time and escalating, you will eventually look around and find that you have game. It’s not easy, but it’s pretty simple.